Mental Performance Blog
When you're under pressure but still have to show up.
Handle interviews, bosses, and clients without crumbling.
How to Sound Confident in an Interview When ChatGPT Polished Your Answers
by: Dave WolovskyPublished on: 12/11/2026How to sound confident in an interview when ChatGPT polished your answers: own your stories, believe them, and practice out loud until you enjoy telling them.
How to Follow Up After a Final Interview When the CEO Did the Talking
by: Dave WolovskyPublished on: 10/11/2026The CEO did most of the talking in your final interview? It went better than it felt. How to follow up after a final interview: one thing they said, kept short.
How to Deal With Defensive Employees: Go First
by: Dave WolovskyPublished on: 09/11/2026How to deal with defensive employees: go first. Own your share of the miss in one sentence, then ask a question and stop talking. Then give your feedback.
Interview Presentation Tips: The Deck Is an Excuse
by: Dave WolovskyPublished on: 08/11/2026Interview presentation tips for leaders: cut your 30-60-90 deck to 3 points, leave half the time for pushback, and tell them to interrupt you. Here's how.
Meet Your Cognitive Performance Coach
Dave Wolovsky
I was home schooled until 13 years old.
Always a quiet introvert.
Overly sensitive to others' discomfort.
I was scared to ask for things.
Waited for others to offer.
Waited and waited.
After a horrible job experience...
⚠️ Strangled by my own anxiety.
⚠️ Desperate to impress my bosses.
⚠️ "Stuck it out" until I got physically ill.
I realized I needed to grow as a person.
To ask for what I needed.
To persuade with empathy.
To negotiate without conflict.
I dove deep into understanding people:
▪︎ Neuroscience (got a masters in it)
▪︎ Positive psychology (a certification)
▪︎ Negotiation (books, courses, teaching).
Then I realized lots of people had difficulties like me.
And I became committed to helping people get paid what they're worth.
An early client got a $35k raise, while cutting back to a 4-day workweek.
I wrote down everything we did.
Conversations along the way.
The mistakes along the way.
I created a set of principles.
Called it "Empathic Influence & Negotiation."
Applied it to salary negotiations.
Applied it to job interviews.
Applied it to networking.
And then I found Mindfulness.
That added some next level juice.
I created the "Mindful Sprint" process.
And now I help talented introverts become Mindful Sprinters.
This kind of personal growth creates:
✓ Better job opportunities.
✓ Higher compensations.
✓ Stronger boundaries.
Without creating:
🚫 Confrontational situations.
🚫 Resentful relationships.
🚫 Suffocating stress.
We navigate social complexities:
▪︎ Being a team player, not a pushover.
▪︎ Asking for a raise collaboratively.
▪︎ Making your value fully visible.
With me, you're not getting an extroverted former CEO.
I won't insist that you have to "command the room."
You ARE getting a partner to help you:
▪︎ Shine a floodlight on your value.
▪︎ Stay authentically introverted.
▪︎ Meet you where you're at.
Expect to be empowered:
▪︎ Do things you've never done before.
▪︎ Learn the science of negotiation.
▪︎ Experience true mindfulness.
I was home schooled until 13 years old.
Always a quiet introvert.
Overly sensitive to others' discomfort.
I was scared to ask for things.
Waited for others to offer.
Waited and waited.
After a horrible job experience...
⚠️ Strangled by my own anxiety.
⚠️ Desperate to impress my bosses.
⚠️ "Stuck it out" until I got physically ill.
I realized I needed to grow as a person.
To ask for what I needed.
To persuade with empathy.
To negotiate without conflict.
I dove deep into understanding people:
▪︎ Neuroscience (got a masters in it)
▪︎ Positive psychology (a certification)
▪︎ Negotiation (books, courses, teaching).
Then I realized lots of people had difficulties like me.
And I became committed to helping people get paid what they're worth.
An early client got a $35k raise, while cutting back to a 4-day workweek.
I thought, "this is interesting."
I wrote down everything we did.
Conversations along the way.
The mistakes along the way.
I created a set of principles.
Called it "Empathic Influence & Negotiation."
Applied it to salary negotiations.
Applied it to job interviews.
Applied it to networking.
And then I found Mindfulness.
That added some next level juice.
I created the "Mindful Sprint" process.
And now I help talented introverts become Mindful Sprinters.
This kind of personal growth creates:
✓ Better job opportunities.
✓ Higher compensations.
✓ Stronger boundaries.
Without creating:
🚫 Confrontational situations.
🚫 Resentful relationships.
🚫 Suffocating stress.
We navigate social complexities:
▪︎ Being a team player, not a pushover.
▪︎ Asking for a raise collaboratively.
▪︎ Making your value fully visible.
With me, you're not getting an extroverted former CEO.
I won't insist that you have to "command the room."
You ARE getting a partner to help you:
▪︎ Shine a floodlight on your value.
▪︎ Stay authentically introverted.
▪︎ Meet you where you're at.
Expect to be empowered:
▪︎ Do things you've never done before.
▪︎ Learn the science of negotiation.
▪︎ Experience true mindfulness.
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