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Believe in Incrementality

April 15, 20241 min read

Believe in Incrementality 🤏🏼

Do you wanna do anything BIG? 🎊

Maybe you want to:

  • Influence people?

  • Achieve crazy goals?

  • Change the whole world?

It turns out, to do anything big, we only have one choice:

  • Do it in tiny steps 🐾

  • Or not at all 😫

Believe in incrementality 🤏🏼

You can ONLY do a tiny amount today. Believe that, and do what you can.

So many times, I've heard people say:

  • "I wish I had the time."

  • "I'll knock this out later."

  • "I just really need to focus."

The old excuses 🥱

Lack of progress isn't from a lack of time, but a lack of faith in incrementality.

So how about we make some reverse excuses?

  • "No gains yet. Sticking to my plan anyway."

  • "I only have 1 hour. I'll do what I can."

  • "It's not easy, but it IS inevitable."

Excuses to make incremental progress.

Excuses to do something, not nothing.

Excuses to give yourself power.

Which excuses do you want to make this week?

Which excuses will you make this week?

Dave Wolovsky
Your Career Growth Engineer

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I was home schooled until 13 years old.

Always a quiet introvert.
Overly sensitive to others' discomfort.

I was scared to ask for things.
Waited for others to offer.
Waited and waited.

After a horrible job experience...

⚠️ Strangled by my own anxiety.
⚠️ Desperate to impress my bosses.
⚠️ "Stuck it out" until I got physically ill.

I realized I needed to grow as a person.

To ask for what I needed.
To persuade with empathy.
To negotiate without conflict.

I dove deep into understanding people:
▪︎ Neuroscience (got a masters in it)
▪︎ Positive psychology (a certification)
▪︎ Negotiation (books, courses, teaching).

Then I realized lots of people had difficulties like me.

And I became committed to helping people get paid what they're worth.

An early client got a $35k raise, while cutting back to a 4-day workweek.

I wrote down everything we did.
Conversations along the way.
The mistakes along the way.

I created a set of principles.
Called it "Empathic Influence & Negotiation."

Applied it to salary negotiations.
Applied it to job interviews.
Applied it to networking.

And then I found Mindfulness.
That added some next level juice.
I created the "Mindful Sprint" process.
And now I help talented introverts become Mindful Sprinters.

This kind of personal growth creates:
✓ Better job opportunities.
✓ Higher compensations.
✓ Stronger boundaries.

Without creating:
🚫 Confrontational situations.
🚫 Resentful relationships.
🚫 Suffocating stress.

We navigate social complexities:
▪︎ Being a team player, not a pushover.
▪︎ Asking for a raise collaboratively.
▪︎ Making your value fully visible.

With me, you're not getting an extroverted former CEO.
I won't insist that you have to "command the room."

You ARE getting a partner to help you:
▪︎ Shine a floodlight on your value.
▪︎ Stay authentically introverted.
▪︎ Meet you where you're at.

Expect to be empowered:
▪︎ Do things you've never done before.
▪︎ Learn the science of negotiation.
▪︎ Experience true mindfulness.

Dave Wolovsky

I was home schooled until 13 years old. Always a quiet introvert. Overly sensitive to others' discomfort. I was scared to ask for things. Waited for others to offer. Waited and waited. After a horrible job experience... ⚠️ Strangled by my own anxiety. ⚠️ Desperate to impress my bosses. ⚠️ "Stuck it out" until I got physically ill. I realized I needed to grow as a person. To ask for what I needed. To persuade with empathy. To negotiate without conflict. I dove deep into understanding people: ▪︎ Neuroscience (got a masters in it) ▪︎ Positive psychology (a certification) ▪︎ Negotiation (books, courses, teaching). Then I realized lots of people had difficulties like me. And I became committed to helping people get paid what they're worth. An early client got a $35k raise, while cutting back to a 4-day workweek. I wrote down everything we did. Conversations along the way. The mistakes along the way. I created a set of principles. Called it "Empathic Influence & Negotiation." Applied it to salary negotiations. Applied it to job interviews. Applied it to networking. And then I found Mindfulness. That added some next level juice. I created the "Mindful Sprint" process. And now I help talented introverts become Mindful Sprinters. This kind of personal growth creates: ✓ Better job opportunities. ✓ Higher compensations. ✓ Stronger boundaries. Without creating: 🚫 Confrontational situations. 🚫 Resentful relationships. 🚫 Suffocating stress. We navigate social complexities: ▪︎ Being a team player, not a pushover. ▪︎ Asking for a raise collaboratively. ▪︎ Making your value fully visible. With me, you're not getting an extroverted former CEO. I won't insist that you have to "command the room." You ARE getting a partner to help you: ▪︎ Shine a floodlight on your value. ▪︎ Stay authentically introverted. ▪︎ Meet you where you're at. Expect to be empowered: ▪︎ Do things you've never done before. ▪︎ Learn the science of negotiation. ▪︎ Experience true mindfulness.

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I was home schooled until 13 years old.

Always a quiet introvert.

Overly sensitive to others' discomfort.

I was scared to ask for things.

Waited for others to offer.

Waited and waited.

After a horrible job experience...

⚠️ Strangled by my own anxiety.

⚠️ Desperate to impress my bosses.

⚠️ "Stuck it out" until I got physically ill.

I realized I needed to grow as a person.

To ask for what I needed.

To persuade with empathy.

To negotiate without conflict.

I dove deep into understanding people:

▪︎ Neuroscience (got a masters in it)

▪︎ Positive psychology (a certification)

▪︎ Negotiation (books, courses, teaching).

Then I realized lots of people had difficulties like me.

And I became committed to helping people get paid what they're worth.

An early client got a $35k raise, while cutting back to a 4-day workweek.

I wrote down everything we did.

Conversations along the way.

The mistakes along the way.

I created a set of principles.

Called it "Empathic Influence & Negotiation."

Applied it to salary negotiations.

Applied it to job interviews.

Applied it to networking.

And then I found Mindfulness.

That added some next level juice.

I created the "Mindful Sprint" process.

And now I help talented introverts become Mindful Sprinters.

This kind of personal growth creates:

✓ Better job opportunities.

✓ Higher compensations.

✓ Stronger boundaries.

Without creating:

🚫 Confrontational situations.

🚫 Resentful relationships.

🚫 Suffocating stress.

We navigate social complexities:

▪︎ Being a team player, not a pushover.

▪︎ Asking for a raise collaboratively.

▪︎ Making your value fully visible.

With me, you're not getting an extroverted former CEO.

I won't insist that you have to "command the room."

You ARE getting a partner to help you:

▪︎ Shine a floodlight on your value.

▪︎ Stay authentically introverted.

▪︎ Meet you where you're at.

Expect to be empowered:

▪︎ Do things you've never done before.

▪︎ Learn the science of negotiation.

▪︎ Experience true mindfulness.